The hidden belief that can destroy your success

January 26, 2010

I noticed a trend amongst converts.  Before converting, many of them are climbing the corporate ladder.  After converting, it’s almost as if they think that if they continue to do that, they are not “as pious”.  In other words, get rid of wordly success so you can get afterlife success.

 

X     Be pious = afterlife success only

 

I don’t blame them.  Much of the reason why they adopt this concept is because many Muslims have this hidden limited belief and it carries over to the converts.

I was conducting a seminar this weekend where (on a side note) we discussed the same thing.  The sheikh in the room described that in Islam, the formula is actually this:

 

√    Be pious = afterlife + wordly success

 

The best believer is the one who is strong in their belief and puts it into action.  The best believer is not the one who sits at home and prays all day (although they would be rewarded for this) but the better one is the one who goes out and benefits society.

And that is what I have done.  Take a look how.

My Big Fat Greek Project

April 2, 2009

I was intereviewed by the Queen of Sheba program so I thought I would share my dreams with you too. :)

 

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Sister Iman, describe your project and the process you went through in realizing how important it is to you?
 
Iman: I realized my life calling at a point in my life when everything seemed passionless. Committing to my own personal development gave me the lenses to see through the fog. Through a process of six months of analyzing and reflecting about empowering questions, I started to unravel the life of my dreams.

I had this insane dream to revolutionize Islam in Greece. I sat down one day and just wrote out a 10 year vision plan. I kept writing and writing and I couldn’t stop. Then I just stared at it and I remember thinking, this is insane! But it was just an exhilarating feeling to even allow myself to take my imagination that far. At that point, I was determined more than ever to go through with it.

I was scared because I was only one person and I barely knew any other Greek Muslims let alone in Greece but I did know that Greece was the only European Union country where there is still no mosque allowed in its capital city. This is the place where every Muslim is called a Turk who “enslaved them for 400 years”. So, you can imagine the mountain of a task in front of me.

 

What motivates you each day as you continue to work on this project?
 
Iman: I am motivated each and every day because I know that Allah has given me life to carry this duty out and I must fulfill my duty. Changing my perception from thinking it is optional to knowing it is mandatory upon me makes all the difference.

On the other hand, practically speaking, it is proven that in order for women to feel stress-free while they are succeeding, they need to feel that they have support (which is not [necessarily] the case for men). I have been blessed to find a team that works with me on the same vision and this is my backbone.

 

In thinking about the scope of your project, what are your hopes for the future?

Iman: I want to see religious freedom for Muslims in Greek society as well as mutual respect between people of different faiths. I hope that through our efforts, we will establish a thriving communal system that will become an integral part of Greek society.

 

How do you balance this project with the other time demands in your life? Any helpful hints?

Iman: This is toughie and will always be for women. What was so hard for me for many years was that I thought in order for me to live my life calling, I had to be out there in the workplace and that just didn’t fit with my lifestyle so I ended up giving it up all together. Big mistake because not living your passion can totally depress a person. Through self development, I realized what the trick is. You have to create a way to live your passion WITHIN the reality of your lifestyle. That way, you are living the best of both worlds.
 
 
There are women out there reading this who have project ideas in their heads. They’re listening. Talk to them. 
Iman: You are a beautiful woman. Dare to dream. Go beyond. Let your mind go wild. If you want to live beyond an average life and live the life your dreams, then my advice is to go and really take your development seriously. Once you know what your life passion is and make a plan for it, the secret weapon is to keep making dua for it in the last third of the night and Allah will lead you there. As one shaykh said, you don’t really want it if you are not praying tahajjud for it.

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What do you think of my dreams? Doable or impossible?