Elena Pouliasi: my journey to Islam

September 26, 2009

The experiences of Greek student after her decision to accept Islam

Source:  Kathimerini.gr 

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“Shall I write your name?” “Yes write it.” “And your parents?” “Eventually they will get to know the truth. I did not fall into drugs!”

Twenty-three year old today, Elena Pouliasi is young and beautiful girl – you can see that even under her hijab. It has been less than a year since her decision to accept Islam, decision that cost her enough friends and posed the risk of rupture with her family.” This is my truth though,” says to “K”.

For the past three years, Elena is in England for studies. In her neighbourhood and university, Muslim population outclass in number. “Like most Greeks, I had too grown with the mentality that the Muslims are strict and oppressed people. I saw women with headscarves and I thought that they do not have a life. But the people I met there were quite different.” Her two best friends in London were from Saudi Arabia – she describes them as “incredibly intelligent and talented.” They naturally wore the headscarf. Elena could not understand and neither wanted to challenge their religion. Herself from a little girl believed in God. “I began to read about Islam in order to convince them, to prove that in the subject of their religion they are misguided.”

She began to read the Quran in his Greek translation. “I began to realize that I had learned it… differently. I saw, as an example, love and respect for the women and mothers. Almost unconsciously I stopped drinking and eating pork. I did not know what the truth was and until I find it, I decided to remain open at all. This process lasted roughly eight months. “I lived as a Muslim. I was careful where I go out, I was more careful with the clothes I wore; I stopped swearing, and became more generous and polite.”

On May 15th she officially became a Muslim. The subject of hijab worried her. In the beginning, she wore it outside, but used to remove the scarf when she entered her office (alongside her studies in International Business and Management, she also runs a translation office). “I did not want the behaviour of my colleagues to change towards me. But now I wear hijab all the time. Why? Because it makes me feel better. I feel secure”.

Personal cost

Her decision did not come without personal cost. “It was something that affected my family too. Even though I have not announced it, my mother understands that I have changed. I lost also many friends. The only consolation is that they were not real friends, or if they were they would like to be with Elena as she really is, not only with Elena that used to go out on Friday night and get drunk.”

It is not that she does not understand them. “Most people have a tendency to believe that to become a Muslim you must have been brainwashed.

However, nobody put the Quran in my hands, it was my choice.

They say to me, “but you were born Greek!” I say to them, “but I am Greek.” Becoming Muslim does not mean that my life is over and that I should devote myself in reading Quran, bear children and become fanatical. On the contrary, I get angry with the Muslims who are extremists.” Before we close,” she points out, “They will ask you for sure, if I became Muslim because I fell in love.  Answer them that I did not. Most women become Muslims before they meet their prince.”

Many are baptized Christian Orthodox

In www.greeksrethink.com, the global online community of Greek Muslims, you find enough testimonies of Greek Orthodox that at some point made the conscious decision of embracing Islam. Most are Greeks of abroad and, in their narrations, describe rather with gloomy colours the way that they were faced by their families. “This is an experiential, hard road to change your religion and which in any case should be treated with respect,” says in the “K” professor of Comparative Philosophy in University of Athens Mr. Marios Begzos. In Greece, however, we are open only in words; instead there is great difficulty in the assimilation of the ‘other’. Especially Muslims, who in our conscience are acknowledged as Turks therefore there are negative records in our subconscious.

The natural routes between the two religions have two directions. Many Muslims every year are baptized Christian Orthodox in a church of our country, although as emphasized in the “K” Chairman of the Board Movement Citizens’ Coexistence and Communication in the Aegean Mr. Stratis Potha, in most cases the reason is marriage.”For Muslims especially, that is something not easy to reveal to their family.

My Big Fat Greek Project

April 2, 2009

I was intereviewed by the Queen of Sheba program so I thought I would share my dreams with you too. :)

 

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Sister Iman, describe your project and the process you went through in realizing how important it is to you?
 
Iman: I realized my life calling at a point in my life when everything seemed passionless. Committing to my own personal development gave me the lenses to see through the fog. Through a process of six months of analyzing and reflecting about empowering questions, I started to unravel the life of my dreams.

I had this insane dream to revolutionize Islam in Greece. I sat down one day and just wrote out a 10 year vision plan. I kept writing and writing and I couldn’t stop. Then I just stared at it and I remember thinking, this is insane! But it was just an exhilarating feeling to even allow myself to take my imagination that far. At that point, I was determined more than ever to go through with it.

I was scared because I was only one person and I barely knew any other Greek Muslims let alone in Greece but I did know that Greece was the only European Union country where there is still no mosque allowed in its capital city. This is the place where every Muslim is called a Turk who “enslaved them for 400 years”. So, you can imagine the mountain of a task in front of me.

 

What motivates you each day as you continue to work on this project?
 
Iman: I am motivated each and every day because I know that Allah has given me life to carry this duty out and I must fulfill my duty. Changing my perception from thinking it is optional to knowing it is mandatory upon me makes all the difference.

On the other hand, practically speaking, it is proven that in order for women to feel stress-free while they are succeeding, they need to feel that they have support (which is not [necessarily] the case for men). I have been blessed to find a team that works with me on the same vision and this is my backbone.

 

In thinking about the scope of your project, what are your hopes for the future?

Iman: I want to see religious freedom for Muslims in Greek society as well as mutual respect between people of different faiths. I hope that through our efforts, we will establish a thriving communal system that will become an integral part of Greek society.

 

How do you balance this project with the other time demands in your life? Any helpful hints?

Iman: This is toughie and will always be for women. What was so hard for me for many years was that I thought in order for me to live my life calling, I had to be out there in the workplace and that just didn’t fit with my lifestyle so I ended up giving it up all together. Big mistake because not living your passion can totally depress a person. Through self development, I realized what the trick is. You have to create a way to live your passion WITHIN the reality of your lifestyle. That way, you are living the best of both worlds.
 
 
There are women out there reading this who have project ideas in their heads. They’re listening. Talk to them. 
Iman: You are a beautiful woman. Dare to dream. Go beyond. Let your mind go wild. If you want to live beyond an average life and live the life your dreams, then my advice is to go and really take your development seriously. Once you know what your life passion is and make a plan for it, the secret weapon is to keep making dua for it in the last third of the night and Allah will lead you there. As one shaykh said, you don’t really want it if you are not praying tahajjud for it.

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What do you think of my dreams? Doable or impossible?
 
 
 

 

 

Greece shaken up over UN and newly announced ECHR Visit

October 2, 2008

Source: http://macedoniaonline.eu/content/view/3453/46/

Published Date: September 16, 2008

 

  

The UN Minorities Expert Gay McDougall is in Greece. According to the Macedonians in Greece, the Government in Athens will try in every way to show the visit as non important, although, they say, Greek Media has been following the story with great interest.

Namely, for the past two days, the UN representative is in Thrace speaking to the Turkish minority which is been referred by Athens

 

as the “Muslim speaking” population – According to the Greek Government, “Muslim” is a language.The Turks are a majority in
Thrace and have decades old complaints of not being allowed to identify themselves as ethnic Turks.
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Greek Government does accept a ’muslim’ minority, without specifying their ethnicity. The Turks and Pomaks are seeking autonomy for their region. McDougall also visited the Roma population.

Today, McDougall is meeting with Macedonians in Voden.  She is also scheduled to meet Macedonians in Solun, Kostur, Lerin, Kukus and the villages gravitating around those cities.
The UN representative visiting the area insisting to be accompanied by representatives of the Macedonians in
Greece even though this request drew a strong response from the Greek Government.
 

 

 

 

 

Instead, Mina finds, the Greek Government had planned for McDougall to avoid the regions where Macedonians lived, and instead take her to the municipality of Kutlesh, to show the Vlach minority.

According to Greek daily Eleftheros Typos, in its article “Minority Games”, Greece is one of the three countries that McDougall will visit this year. The other two where minority abuse is recorded are Ethiopia and Hungary.

Typos says official Athens is not commenting much on the visit, though Diplomats have confirmed this visit is a problem for Greece.

 

The Daily further explains there’s been great interest by the Americans to show the “Turkish Identity” of the Muslims in Thrace.  
 

 


Parallel to this, the axis
AnkaraSkopje which developed after the Bucharest Summit grows stronger with the aim to create minority problems for Greece, concludes the Greek daily.Yesterday afternoon, the Greek Government received a note from the European Commission of Human Rights which announced their visit at the beginning of next month.

 

 

 

 
 

 

 

 

 

Hatred for Turks breeds in other countries too

June 29, 2008

With the recent discussion on Greek-Turkish relations, I think you will find this video interesting. 

Here’s a brother from our city who converted after having ingrained in him the societal acceptance to hate Muslims or Turks.  Although he is from Romania, his upbringing towards the idea of hatred for Turks is very similar to that of Greeks.

Romanian and loving Islam

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